Question:3:
How did the Shaykh interact with his children in their private lives?
Answer:
His dealings with his sons and daughters fell into two stages.
First, in their childhood,
he :ra: was keen to be close to them, take care of them, raise some of the Islamic principles in them, and follow their educational chievements.
In addition, he made sure to direct, admonish, and incite them.
For instance, he would sometimes take the children with him to the Masjid to perform some of the fard prayers.
Also, he would encourage them to fast some of the days of Ramadan.
Furthermore, he would incite them to memorize some of the short surahs of the Qur’aan and reward them on that.
In the stage of youth and maturity,
he :ra: was firm concerning their fulfilling of the religious obligations and in discipline in cases of negligence.
He would couple that with direction and leniency.
At certain times, he was not hesitant to do what was sufficient to change or correct their mistakes.
In addition, he :ra: used to put full trust in them to do certain things so they could learn to depend upon themselves;
he used to continuously encourage them on righteousness and check on them regarding that.